Throughout history, friendship has been considered a “crown of life.” What do you value the most about friendship?

Spiritual friendship between followers of Christ can be a catalyst for us to grow in holiness and wholeness. Do you see how this is possible? Can you think of any examples in your own life when a brother or sister in Christ has been key to your spiritual growth?

1. Spiritual friendship between followers of Christ can be a catalyst for us to grow in holiness and wholeness. Do you see how this is possible? Can you think of any examples in your own life when a brother or sister in Christ has been key to your spiritual growth?

2. Read John 15:13-16. What does friendship with Jesus mean? In what ways does recognizing yourself as Jesus’ friend influence your prayers, choices, or willingness His guidance?

3. Read Hebrews 3:12-14. Have you ever struggled with doubt in your faith? How does this passage motivate you to examine your faith and perseverance? What are practical ways to encourage each other to remain steadfast in faith?

4. Recall the Practice of Spiritual Friendship: The Conversation
Ask about each other’s life.
Affirm God’s work in each other’s life.
Admit problems, struggles, temptations

a. What do you see as important about each part of this conversation?
b. Read Hebrews 4:14-16, 1 John 1:5-9 and James 5:16. To “admit” is the hard part of a conversation between spiritual friends. But it is also the good part. Why is confession so important in the life of a believer?
c. Why is authenticity so important in our lives? What are the greatest challenges of practicing authenticity?

Reflect about spiritual friendship this week. There are two big obstacles to the practice of spiritual friendship: the first obstacle is finding a spiritual friend and the second obstacle is finding the time to meet. What kind of person would you be looking for in a spiritual friend? Would you be willing to rearrange your schedule to pursue this friendship? Pray about how God would lead you in your next step.

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Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the beautiful gift of friends who walk alongside me in faith—
those who speak truth with love,
lift me when I stumble,
and remind me of Your promises when my heart feels weary.
Let our friendship be more than shared moments;
make it a reflection of Your heart and Your grace.
Fill our words with encouragement,
our actions with kindness,
and our prayers with sincerity.
Teach us to inspire one another toward holiness,
to rejoice together in blessings,
and to stand strong together in trials.
Keep our hearts humble,
our spirits united,
and our love anchored in You.
For those still seeking spiritual friends, Lord,
open doors to connections that will nurture their faith,
bring joy to their hearts,
and draw them closer to You.
May our bonds shine as a light that points others to Your presence,
and may they endure through every season,
rooted deeply in the love of Christ.
Amen.