What’s the first "small secret” you remember keeping as a child?
Do you press the gas or brakes when you see a yellow light at an intersection?
What comes to your mind when you hear the word “confession”?
Dave outlined the cycle of secrets. (thought → plan → action → result → guilt/shame → secrecy) Re-read
2 Samuel 11. Where do you see the elements of the “secret cycle” in David’s story?
Read
Psalm 51:1-2. What stands out to you about the way David approaches God in his confession? How can this shape your own prayers?
Nathan confronted David about his sin (
2 Samuel 12). Who has been a “Nathan” in your life—someone who lovingly told you a hard truth?
What barriers make confession difficult for you (fear of judgment, consequences, pride, etc)?
How might our group create a culture of safety, grace, and honesty that encourages confession and healing?
Reflect: what secret, if any, is God inviting you to bring into the light?
Is there a Care Class that would be helpful to sign up for? Financial Foundations, Grieving with Hope, Marriage Class, Recovery, Divorce Care.
If a Christian counselor would be a helpful resource, you may find a list of trusted counselors at thecrossing.church/counselors. You can also meet with a pastor by reaching out to pastors@thecrossing.church.
Divide up
Psalm 51 to members of your group. Ask them to pray silently or out loud that portion of the prayer in their own words. When you finish, have a member close in a prayer.